Changing Your Handwriting Could Change Your Personality

Before we could proceed with grapho-therapy, I recommend that you have your handwriting analyze to identify your emotional response, emotional intensity, positive and negative traits that you have. 

The reason is that it will be easier to fix or improve something that you know.

Another reason is that sometimes the habit that you want to change is a combination of other habits.  Therefore you need understand about this combination before changes could be made.

After you have understand about yourself, you need to make a choice either to eliminate the negative traits through changing your habit permanently or through changing the strokes in your handwriting. 

If you choose grapho-therapy then I will recommend which letters/strokes that you need to change and practice to write these until you could unconsciously write them.

People said that it will take 21 to 30 days to change a habit.  Therefore you need to practice writing the new strokes for 30 days or until you unconsciously write the right way.

I also recommend that you change one stroke at a time.

When the handwriting was unconsciously changed, the corresponding negative traits will be eliminated.  At the same time you should start to increase your t-bar.

I normally do not advise people to directly raise the t-bar exactly touching the t-stem without eliminating the negative traits first. 

We already know that raising the t-bar would increase the self-esteem therefore if there is any negative habit in that you; that will increase too. 

For example if there is a stubborn trait in your handwriting and you increase the t-bar without eliminating the stubbornness than you will become more stubborn.  That is just stubbornness, what happen if you have any critical negative traits such as aggressiveness or you have issue with the opposite gender in your handwriting and you increase you t-bar without knowing you have this trait?????  Just imagine…. 

If you really want to raise the t-bar with eliminating the negative traits (especially the critical one), please do it straight, blunt, in the middle and do not put to much pressure on it.  We do not want you to create a different personality instead because any stroke, whether it is a dot, hook, line, curve or loop will give a different effect on your personality. 

Also remember that when you eliminate something in your handwriting with having a proper knowledge, you may create something else in replace of what you eliminate that may bring more negative than positive.

My advise is to consult a certified handwriting analyst if you want to make changes to your handwriting or in other words grapho-therapy. 

Examples of grapho-therapy for children:

As grapho-therapy works well for adult, it will be more effective on children as their handwriting as well as their character is still in a formative stage. 

Therefore this is the perfect time to begin correcting any undesirable traits and tendencies.  Children are our future leaders; the earlier we could correct any undesirable traits the better they would be when they grow up.

Let have a look at some sample of letters that handwriting analysts and grapho-therapies recommend for children to practice:

Writing the d like sample 2, would cause the children to develop sensitiveness to criticism, stubbornness etc.  Future leader should not have these qualities.

Lets look at another example:

We need to teach the children to write the t like sample 1 not like sample 2:

Sample 2 revealed negative traits such as low self-esteem, stubborn, procrastination etc.

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